Death, Destruction, and Masculinity

In Ocean Vuong’s fantastic conversation on the On Being podcast, he commented on our culture’s glorification of violence through language:

In this culture, we celebrate boys through the lexicon of conquest and violence — ‘you’re killin’ it,’ I bagged it’,’ guns blazing,’ slay,’ drop dead gorgeous.’ And I think it’s worth it to ask the question: what happens to our men and boys when the only way they can valuate themselves is through the lexicon of death and destruction? And I think when they see themselves only worthwhile when they are capable of destroying things, it’s inevitable that we arrive at a masculinity that is toxic. - Ocean Vuong

Speaking in this way has been so ingrained in me that I’ve never noticed it before.

March 19, 2021

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