Three Words to Describe My Style Revisited
Today, I decided to revisit the “three-word exercise”—a simple exercise where you summarize your style in three words. Last year, my three words were subtle, elevated, and contrasting. After reflecting on what I learned about my style and myself, I updated my 3 words to better reflect my current style:
Classic
Through experimenting with Ivy style last year, I learned that I love dressing up. I’m drawn to classic, formal pieces like button-up shirts, pleated trousers, leather footwear, knitwear, and blazers. Dressing casually just doesn’t feel like me.
This preference aligns with my personality—I’m a bit of an old soul. I enjoy reading old books, listening to classic music, and older TV shows and movies. I like being in control, feeling put-together, and investing in pieces that are built to last.
Comfortable
Another lesson I learned from experimenting with Ivy style last year is that while I love the aesthetic, it often felt uncomfortable or impractical for my lifestyle. For example, I enjoy wearing ties, but they added extra time to my mornings, felt restrictive, and I’d look ridiculous wearing a tie on a Zoom meeting in my bedroom for my remote Job.
Now, I want to be dressed up but comfortable. I do this through more oversized formal pieces which introduces tension — combining the formality of dressed up pieces with the comfort and casualness of a relaxed silhouette. This is why I love oversized button ups and wide fit pleated pants. Both pieces are formal in nature but the oversized nature makes them more casual.
Simple
One of my qualms with the fashion industry is its consumerist culture. I have no desire of actively participating in every trend (though I’m not anti-trend) and amassing a large wardrobe.
Especially since I’m curating a wardrobe of high quality pieces, that fit me perfectly, and that age well, each piece will speak for itself. No need to overcomplicate my outfits. This may not result in trendy, eye-catching, Wisdom level fits, but it’s my personal style and I’m confident in it.