Being My Full Self at Work

In Monday meetings, it’s routine to get asked how your weekend was.

I spend most of my weekends—and most of my free time—doing something fashion- or writing-related.

I used to brush off the question, saying I just relaxed, avoiding specifics. Even if I hosted a major writing event or published a big piece, I’d even hide what I was really up to.

Back then, I felt like I needed to keep that part of my life separate from work.

But this year, I’ve decided to show up as my full self. I openly share what I do on weekends. I talk about my passions with my coworkers.

And I noticed that not only are they interested but they respect me more for it. I feel lighter, as if I have nothing to hide.

This shift isn’t just about my interests—it’s how I dress, how I speak, how I carry myself. I’m done putting on a mask. Now, I can just be me.

January 28, 2025


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